At the moment, I’m in the USA after 3 entire years in Germany, actually a little more. At this point, I expect to go back to Germany at the beginning of December.
The time in Germany is the longest that I ever been out of the USA at one go. I had not actually intended for that to be the case. I had intended for both my son and I to spend weeks of each of the years that we lived over there, over here – keeping in touch with it. Sometimes plans don’t work out, but sometimes they do.
It is nice to have relief from what has been hardest for me over there that first 3years. I feel like I haven’t figured out ‘how to work Germany’. By that I mean: it is clear that it is a place that can be wondrous and is loaded with great potential. Nowadays, it is also a popular nation, internationally. Nevertheless, in some aspects I had a very hard time there, whereas other aspects were pretty good.
Obviously, I hope to be able to make it work better in all aspects over there when I go back. I do plan to move me and my kid back here, but not until my son finishes secondary school. As a heads up, they have Grade 13 over there, like the Canadians, which I had somehow not found out despite having had a German partner in my home for 9 years (in that case, I mean my kid’s father).
Blah blah blah, stuff that’s different / stuff that’s the same.
General cultural statement about the Germans: They probably did tell you, in very clear German, which is why you still don’t know even though they told you.